Friday, 31 December 2021

2021 - Reflecting on a year of “Change”!

What a year this has been folks! A wedding, multiple receptions, moving house, not once but twice, a honeymoon and completing a PhD. My 2021 was ram-packed with change, but throughout it all I have been so in awe of God’s goodness, faithfulness and His sovereignty.

In May, I had the privilege of marrying my best friend, Andrew. He is the answer to a popcorn prayer I prayed in 2013, having just met him for the first time, asking God for a husband like Andrew. Little did I know that God was going to answer that prayer, in His way, and in His time.
Take delight in the LORD, and He will give you the desires of your heart ~ Psalm 37:4
Despite our cultural differences (which were a topic of discussion for my Indian family - but that’s a story for another day!), our shared faith in Jesus has united and strengthened us, helping us navigate through a season of waiting and uncertainty. Even though we were only allowed 15 guests at our pandemic wedding, it was a truly blessed day. We saw God’s hand at work in every detail - from friends and family joining us online from all around the world, to a shower of natural confetti from the cherry blossom tree when we stepped out of the church. It was perfect! God’s ways are higher than our ways (Isaiah 55:9) and He is able to do immeasurably more than what we ask or imagine (Ephesians 3:20).


If getting married was stressful enough to do in a pandemic, finishing a PhD was worse! The journey was long and incredibly trying at times, but through it all, I have felt God’s presence by my side and His hand at work at every stage. 

When I have been overcome with worry I have heard Him whisper:
“Do not be afraid little flock.” ~ Luke 12:32
 “Be still and know that I am God” ~ Psalm 46:10 
When I have felt inadequate, He has reassured me:
“Do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand” ~ Isaiah 41:10
The hours leading up to the submission of my thesis were nothing short of a nightmare. Two laptops crashed and the third struggling, I made the midnight deadline with literally a minute to spare! It honestly felt like God has stopped the clock for me to submit my thesis in time just like He stopped the sun for Joshua (Joshua 10). He is a way maker, a miracle worker and a promise keeper and my PhD journey has helped me see more of who He is and my constant need for Him. 

I started this year in Southampton, unmarried and working on experiments in the lab. I am finishing this year as a married woman, having completed my PhD and now living with my husband in London. Even though a lot has changed, God has been the same - good, faithful and in control.

My dear friends, I pray that as you read these musings that you are encouraged to keep trusting God even in times of waiting and frustration. I pray that you know His constant presence, His immeasurable power and His unchanging love in every season that awaits you in the coming year.
Happy New Year!